Cracking the Code of Love: Unveiling the Secrets of Three Powerful Female Archetypes
Love is like a universal remote - everyone wants it, but only a few can find the right button.
LOVE! A word so familiar to all of us and so often understood too narrowly. LOVE, unlike other meaning-forming values, is also a feeling. In this sense it is comprehensive.
LOVE is the greatest good and the greatest punishment, an object of desire and denial, a feeling that everyone wants to experience, but only a few are capable of it, repeatedly sung by millions of poets and hundreds of writers, repeated in vain, and only once in a whisper. This is both a universal human value and an all-consuming feeling, which is refracted completely differently in three key female archetypes:
• DEMETER – embodies the archetype of maternal love;
• APHRODITE – embodies the image of a woman’s self-love;
• THE QUEEN embodies the image of possessive love for the world she created.
Although for all three archetypes LOVE is the source of FEMALE SELF ENERGY and means unity with the whole world, the meaning of life, transcendence itself and the highest measure of humanism, nevertheless, their behavioral preferences are significantly different and reflect three different socio-historical female roles: mother , beloved and mistress.
5 RULES OF LOVE
Practice unconditional love: Love without restrictions or conditions is the foundation of deep and lasting relationships. Practice showing love to others without expecting reciprocation or certain conditions.
Be considerate and caring: Show care and attention to the people you love. Take time, listen to them and support them in their aspirations and struggles. Take care of their well-being and happiness.
Express your feelings: Don't be afraid to express your love through words and actions. Tell people how much they mean to you and do small but meaningful acts of kindness to show your affection and care.
Show Respect: Respect the individuality and uniqueness of each person you love. Respect their opinions, decisions and boundaries. Give them the freedom to be themselves and support them in their aspirations and goals.
Forgive and Accept: Love also requires forgiveness and acceptance. Be willing to forgive other people's mistakes and shortcomings. Accept them for who they are, value them as individuals and entities. This will help strengthen your relationship and create space for growth and happiness.
DISADVANTAGES OF RELATIONSHIP
Just don’t delude yourself too much about these priestesses of LOVE. Being able to LOVE does not at all mean being an easy person. Nobody said they were easy. You must be prepared for intense passions if you are too independent. Being the lover of such women is a special art. You need to be able to:
• Accept and give gifts, and few people know how to do this
• Remember exactly what she likes from food, drinks, music, movies, books and love it too
• Be interesting and at the same time need support and help
• Love his/her children, but no more or stronger than he/she
• Listen and understand what is being said
• Be able to please and rejoice, delight and be delighted, show strong emotions
• Be sexy, passionate, but not intrusive
• Be able to enjoy and give pleasure
To be close, you need to learn to accept the small and big joys of living together and feel a sense of gratitude. Also, remember that altruistic and caring Hedonists need personal space. They have a huge inner world and many favorite things. Never encroach on their personal territory, respecting their partner’s space and personal belongings, because they love them.
And also, remember that if you fall in love with a hedonist, but she doesn’t love you, then you have no chance. DISLOVE of representatives of this Value psychotype is as strong as LOVE. It is just as comprehensive, but unlike LOVE it is not creative, but destructive.
LOVE in a metaphorical sense is a creator and builder, a talented altruist, because its main resource is life itself, and the result is the continuity of life on Earth! One can only wish that the fire with which she ignites people’s hearts warms their souls and does not burn them out.